There is just a fine line between self-love and selfishness. For moms, you have thrown in so much love in family, job, and kids. So it’s okay to have some self-loving time, get recharged from it! However, moms tend to stress themselves out for being a perfect mom but there is no woman born to be a mom! So loving yourself a bit will not cause you to be an irresponsible mom.

The highest value of humanitarian ethics is not to deny himself, not selfishness, but self-love; not deny individual, but certainly true self.

— Erich Fromm

According to a study by Deborah Khoshaba Psy.D. in Psychology Today(the world’s largest mental health and behavioral science destination online.), she believes self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support one's physical, psychological, and spiritual growth. And she also pointed out, the more self-love one has, the more one can attract people and circumstances that support one's well-being. 

Most people are used to compromise themselves to achieve someone’s expectation, why? Because they are afraid to be tagged as “Selfish” people always having thought of self-love as selfish. On the opposite, in the article by Susanna Newsonen, a philosophy, she thinks self-love is about believing in yourself and treating yourself with love. And that brings out good energy, a positive mind to start every day, and confidence to break through difficulties.

Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-path-passionate-happiness/202002/self-love-selfish-narcissistic-and-arrogant

Positivity can be one of the biggest gains you will ever get while practicing self-love. Once you are starting to love yourself in the bad or the good ones and become a believer in yourself. You will stop questioning or negative thoughts of yourself but spreading your positive vibes to others. Things that have a common quality ever quickly seek their kind. If you have the power of positivity, you will find yourself surrounded by people having great energy too. 

When you have given enough self-love to yourself you can be unbeatable! You will have the motivation and confidence in pursuing your goals, dreams or even helping you to step out of your comfort zone. Having the motivation to push yourself beyond limits on everything and be the inspiration of yourself- the person you would always want to be.

 

Having some me-time will never be an act of selfishness to your family. HH believes self-care is also a form of self-love and this is what everyone deserves to have, especially for moms! HH wants to have your back with natural and gentle feminine care. Reward yourself with up to 30 all-natural plant extracts and patented formulas, recharge under the great enjoyment of aromatic essential oils scents. HH protects you physically and mentally. 

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